Did I get your attention? I am sure I did. Both the girls in above photos are gorgeous right? On the left is Theresa, right is Siew. I love both of them :)

I like to hang out with attractive girls. Especially ones with great personality, great smile and smart brain.

I tell you a secret… I have fetish for short hair girl.

I will totally lose control, like “wahhhhhhhhh she has short hair shit man I’m going after her UHHH LA LAAAAA”…

Unfortunately, Theresa prefers long hair. I will court her if she cut her hair short. /slurps.

Like my shirts says, “Life Begins at 40″. I want to meet at many girls as possible before 40. Keep looking until I find the right one.

I am currently single. But not available. I have to admit, I do have many attractive female friends around me. I appreciate each and everyone of them :)

Problem is, I am categorized as BFF (Best Friend Forever). Like, hold hands go watch movie also won’t get suspicious. So far that haven’t happen la, who want to try? hheheheehhe.

I am only 25 this year. I want to spend 100% focus on my career for the first 15 years before I reach 40.

So I can get this million dollar car. Mitsuoka. Hmmm. sexy.

Somehow I felt like I’m driving a kancil. The driver seat is too small.

Anyway, back to original topic… heheh sorry sorry.

Not everyone is heading the same direction, though. Some prefer to be in 9am-5pm job. Some work for parents. Some prefer not to work until the right chance arise.

Me? I prefer to work for myself. I am not planning to waste few years of my time to work for others. Why? For all the effort and time I spent on others – the real benefit goes to the boss. Not yourself. You can earn experience and money. But TIME is forever gone.

You are your own best asset. Why invest on others? I might be narrow minded but I have a clear path. Since I have chosen my path – I will work hard for it.

I’m only 25, I got nothing to lose. Time, energy, money, knowledge, skill, perseverance, willing to learn – are my assets.

This might be a wishful thinking. At least I am working on it. What about you? ;)

I wrote a similar article about what path I am heading – Seek Danger

I am getting myself a Mercedes Benz when I earn my first million.

It’s my way or the high way.

Diu nya seng!!! (totally unnecessary)

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This is based on a true story.

A rich businessman had a beautiful daughter, who fell in love with a guy who was a cleaner.

When the girl’s father came to know about their love, he did not like it at all, and so began to protest about it.

Now it happened that the two lovers decided to leave their homes for a happy future. The girl’s father started searching for the two lovers but could not find them.

At last, he accepted their love and asked them to come back home in a local newspaper. Her father said “If you both come back I will allow you to marry the guy you love, I accept that you loved each other truly.”

So in this way, their love won and they returned home.

The couple went to town to shop for the wedding dress. He was dressed in white shirt that day. While he was crossing the road to the other side to get some drinks for his wife, a car came and hit him and he died on the spot.

The girl lost her senses. It was only after sometimes that she recovered from her shocked. The funeral and cremation was the very next day because he had died horribly.

Two nights later, the girl’s mother had a dream in which she saw an old lady. The old lady asked her mother to wash the blood stains of the guy from her daughter’s dress as soon as possible. But her mother ignored the dream.

The next night her father had the same dream, he also ignored it. Then when the girl had the same dream the next night, she woke up in fear and told her mother about the dream. Her mother asked her to wash the clothes which have blood stains immediately.

She washed the stains but some remained. Next night she again had the same dream she again washed the stains but some still remained.

Next night she again had the same dream and this time the old lady gave her a last warning to wash the blood stain, or else something terrible will happen. This time the girl tried her best to wash the stains, and the clothes nearly tore, but some stains still remained.

She was very tired.

In the late evening the same day while she was alone at home, someone knocked the door. When she opened the door she saw the same old lady of her dream standing at her door.. She got very scared and fainted.

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Hanging out with bunch of pretty girls are very stress.

Not the people-looking-at-me those kind of stress, it’s more like, damn-you-girls-are-so-noisyyyyyyyyy kind of stress.

Never ending topics. Fuhhhh!!

During CNY, my ex-classmates went to Siew’s house for visit (main purpose: ang pao). You know la, one whole year didn’t meet, the topic…. flow like river. Talk talk talk talk talk. We talked until we sent off a friend at airport, then continue talk talk talk talk talk at Old Town Cafe with more ex-classmates joining us.

(P/S: the talking starts from 12noon until 6:30pm)

Finally, dinner time! We came to conclusion “okay we’re tired, let’s end this today”

As usual, I am the destined driver… My driving skill paling cekap bah, what to do? Hahahha nolah. It’s only because my house is strategically situated between their house. So, naturally I’m the driver.

When I sent them to Siew’s house, another topic arise..

“Hey… that XXX broke up with XXX already meh?”

“Yawohhh…. she even have another child another guy already OMG!!”

=__=” < ---- me

"Ah Bing!! WE don't want to go home yet! Let's go dinner together!!"

"Do I have a choice?"

...obviously not ^^;

Clockwise from top left: Siew, Delonia, Candy, Lily. All funny looking face.. it’s a trend ok!

We went to Wagamama Japanese restaurant at Lintas Square. This is only a small part of the class gathering. When all the classmates combine.. walau eh.. BISING gao gao.

When we walked into restaurant.. I can feel a bit 殺氣 from other customers, especially tables with only males ^^;

Clockwise from top left: Bing, Bing, Bing, Bing.

Siew requested me to make my nostrils big big. I regretted taking her advice. I had no choice. If I don’t listen to her, they won’t go home.

Is okay. My nostrils are naturally huge. Parents don’t have such feature… maybe from nenek moyang like 1000+ years ago. My sis always laugh at me T_T

Snapped a few photos during their “break”.. as in stopping their mouth and refuel with cold ocha. Rare chance you know..

Too bad, despite hanging out with so many pretty girls, I can’t flirt any of ‘em T_T all of them have categorised me as BFF.

Best Friend Forever.

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I miss the clubbing scene.

… and I thought I was.

Until the day I stepped into my first club in year 2010. I was wrong. Clubbing doesn’t appeal to me anymore :(

I used to be excited about the music, the alcohol, the ladies, the atmosphere. Now, this feeling has faded. Of course I still get excited with pretty girls around lah. Who doesn’t?

I have not join any clubbing events for whole duration of 2009. It’s a big deal for me because I have been clubbing since I am 17. Clubbing has been my weekend activity since, more like a ritual.

Then I suddenly decide not to go clubbing for one WHOLE year. It’s a challenging task. Put in another context, it’s like you to stop peeing halfway, you have to tahan for 30 secs then release again. Go try, and you will know how I felt.

The last time I stepped into clubs was one year ago, I was really looking forward to go club, especially the most hyped club in KK now, call “FireFly”

No, not the song from Owl City.

Personally I think the club is a very small. There are good and bad at such situation, depending on how you look at it.

The good thing is, you can get into damn close distance with opposite sex (woohooo nice), and thus easier to approach. The club feels more lively when crowded and you are more likely to be intimate with opposite sex if you were in a conversation. This is good if that’s person you hope to get close with.

Bad thing is, if the other person is same sex as you and you had no chance to get separate the distance. To make it worse, the opposite sex has a feature you doesn’t like. E.g. smelly, sweaty, ham-sap hand.

I guess I am neither good nor bad. The reason is, I can get close without getting TOO close because my huge tummy is keeping the distance. If my buddy has same figure as me, we need to shout during our conversation. Hahaha.

Clubbing scene is never a good place to have conversation. Action speaks louder than word, baby.

Yvonne, you have sexy ass. I like.

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We have entered March 2010. 60 days since New Year and still counting… it’s too fast. I am only half way consuming the Chivas bottle, I am not done with my celebrations yet.

But in reality, I had to face the truth. Holidays are over. I had to focus on my plan and put some serious effort. If not, I never get enough money to buy handbag(s) for my girlfriend(s)

As you can see, I am not active in personal blogging anymore. I got more exciting projects to do – that is why I devote much of my time on those projects.

I would like to update ahbing.com at least 3 times a week, but my time is really limited. I still have 20+ pending Australia posts to blog… /sigh, that’s unlikely to happen. Unless I run out of topic to blog, then I’ll dig back the old posts to write.

Hah! I got sooooo many posts to write and I am not sure whether I should do it. Don’t care la… I just post whatever I can.

This is few posts combined into one, a summary of upcoming blog posts.

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I am back

Settling back at my hometown, Kota Kinabalu, is not easy. To make myself feel like a “brand new start”, I made a few changes to my surroundings.

Namely,

  1. Donate unused cloths (honest – I’m too big size now)
  2. Change wall colour
  3. Move my workspace into my room instead of living room
  4. Removed old stuffs from cupboard (love letters, high school notes and books)
  5. Removed like 10 pairs of my dad’s shoe
  6. Removed my mum’s cloths in my cupboard (it’s my personal cupboard now, /pfft!)
  7. Removed threadmill, cycle machine and massage chair. All not working.

Here’s my next plan

  • Install new cupboard in my room, built in ones
  • New cupboard in kitchen (mum wait hit 4D first)
  • Remove even more things from my room!
  • and the rest are tiny details which I’m too lazy to mention

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My room + work space

..with lights turned on (afternoon)

My room is painted dark blue. To make it even darker, I installed a thick plastic curtain that blocks out 90% of sunlight and heat.

without lights (afternoon)

Dark colour room is awesome, I love it. Especially if you are night owl that stays up late and always sleep til afternoon.

I had to change the colour because this room is going to be my workspace and I need to have a brighter working area. Thus I repainted it into sky blue.

This is my current working area, same exact place where I’m typing this entry right now. Now the table is filled with notes, tidbits and gadgets.

I think it will be awesome if I remove the metal cupboard and replace with cupboard (with decks) to put the extra stuffs there. Such as wallets, watch, gadgets, nude women photos..

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Temporary escape from reality

The first few days of my arrival, I cannot settle my emotions yet. “Is this the end of fun? I haven’t done anything yet! not even serious in study”.

Another thing that makes me reluctant to return to Malaysia is my family problem, which has negative impact on me. 每家都有難念的經 and I rate the seriousness of my family problem at 9/10 – taking risk tolls at emotions and family relationship. One of the reasons I need to come back.

The most important things that makes me feel uneasy is the sudden surge of illegal immigrants.

“Damn, what happened to my lovely town? Where’s are all the locals? Chinese? Malay? Ethnics? Feels like I am at Philippine instead of Malaysia” This is sad.

On the same weekend of my arrival, I told Chris the Sarawakian Samseng, “hey nga lin chai, I am going to explore Kuching tomorrow. Don’t feel like staying at home.. wanna go together?”

“I dare you”

“ngai diao, I buy tickets now!”

“buy laaaaaa”

Then half day later, I am at Kuching already. This is my itinerary

  • Kuching – 2 days 2 nights
  • Sarikei – 1 day 1 night
  • Sibu – 1 day

Wished I could continue the trip longer, but Chinese New Year is coming soon. I need to help mum do lots of CNY errands. Chris need to balik kampung also so our trip ended up only a few days. Made this decision over in few hours only.. nothing much we can do.

Here are some of my short trip photos (summary):

What I personally think of Kuching

  1. Food are ridiculously cheap – only realised Sabah’s food are 200% overpriced due to rise in tourism
  2. All pretty ladies are hiding at somewhere else. I don’t see any attractive ladies at all.
  3. Major Chinese, no illegal immigrants!

I’ll blog about my trip in details next time. Many funny shits to share with you.

I definitely felt a lot better after coming back from the trip. Maybe I need to travel more… who want to join me to Taiwan and Japan? only girls allowed – please send in your application form, interviews depending on the quality of your photo – thank you.

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Chinese New Year Eve

Every year, I am obligated to return to my grandparent’s kampung to celebrate CNY, is the tradition for Chinese to return to 祖屋 to celebrate with elder relatives. This is my first time celebrating in KK in 25 years due to my family problem /sigh.

That doesn’t discourage me, this is a perfect chance to celebrate in KK for the first time in my life! I never thought this city can be so damnnnnnnnn lively! Fireworks everywhere, crowds flood the night markets and free-food everywhere haha.

Growing up, I always celebrated CNY in kampung. I spend most of the time watching Astro and eating prawn crackers. Time past 12 midnight and I get angpao! That’s how I thought CNY is supposed to be. But man, never thought CNY can really be THIS fun ^^;

Here’s some photos on CNY eve.


大龍香


玅灋壇聖旗


供品


八隻舞獅


老母和老妹


點(假)砲

CNY eve is already this fun, can’t wait to show you the rest of the CNY celebration. Way more activities and more fun!

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Tambunan with relatives

I have soooooooooo many cousins.

SOOOOOOOOOOOO many of them, until I can’t remember their name. Which is ridiculous.

You know why? My mum has 19 siblings. If each of them only had one child.. maybe the number is still normal. But try to multiply the number as time goes by. Especially after my oversea studies for 5 years…

“Whose son is this ah?” I keep asking. Hahahha.

So many cousins… impossible we watch same channel on Astro. Thus, open a table, take out a deck of cards – FULL TIME GAMBLE.

Even 14 years old also started to drink chivas. Life is good. Life is awesome.

Left hand hold cards, right hand hold cold beer. Gamble until morning. Continue gamble again when wake up with slight hangover. It’s like the biggest party in Sabah, once a year.

My uncle-in-law is teaching cousins how to tackle opponents in rugby. He is National Rugby coach and we got free lessons!

Come tackle me anytime, let me practice. I can’t tackle my cousins because difference in size. But I don’t want to tackle my uncle also.. I want to maintain my perfect bone-structure.

我的美人 eating competition. Winner gets ang pao. Once again, I cannot join the competition because of difference in size also /sigh.

That’s 5 posts in one single entry. Hope you enjoy reading this entry as much as I enjoy writing it ^^

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Seek Danger

February 23, 2010

Stop.

Stop listening to everybody around you.

Stop following aimlessly.

Stop making excuses.

Start going after what you want.

Make decisions.

Don’t apologize for those decisions.

Some decisions you make will be wrong.

You will fail.

Some decisions you make will be spot on.

You will succeed.

Some decisions you make will just be.

That’s OK too.

You know what you want. Your friends and family know what they want for you.

There is a monumental difference between the two.

It’s the difference between being happy and just being.

You can’t please everybody.

Don’t try.

Most people won’t agree with you.

Good.

Agreement is safe.

Acceptance is safe.

Doing what you’ve been doing is safe.

Seek danger.

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